YOU OWE URSELF®

Is more than a mental health awareness brand. It’s a reminder for personal growth and self discovery — creating intentional spaces for healing, connection, and community.

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Before you go. Please know whatever you're carrying right now. you don't have to carry it alone.

There is hope. You are not alone in this journey.

PSYCHOLOGY TODAY

PSYCHOLOGY TODAY

PSYCHOLOGY TODAY OFFERS A MORE TRADITIONAL FACE TO FACE COUNSELING BY ENTERING YOUR ZIP CODE. THIS RESOURCE IS AVAILABLE IN 17 COUNTRIES INCLUDING THE USA, CANADA, UNITED KINGDOM, AUSTRALIA, AND MANY OTHERS. 

PSYCHOLOGY TODAY OFFERS A MORE TRADITIONAL FACE TO FACE COUNSELING BY ENTERING YOUR ZIP CODE. THIS RESOURCE IS AVAILABLE IN 17 COUNTRIES INCLUDING THE USA, CANADA, UNITED KINGDOM, AUSTRALIA, AND MANY OTHERS. 

www.psychologytoday.com

988 SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFE LINE

IF YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS EXPERIENCING SUICIDAL THOUGHTS OR EMOTIONAL DISTRESS CALL OR TEXT 988—THE 988 SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE PROVIDES FREE AND CONFIDENTIAL EMOTIONAL SUPPORT 24 HOURS A DAY, 7 DAYS A WEEK, ACROSS THE UNITED STATES.

www.988lifeline.org 

988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline

IF YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS EXPERIENCING SUICIDAL THOUGHTS OR EMOTIONAL DISTRESS CALL OR TEXT 988—THE 988 SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE PROVIDES FREE AND CONFIDENTIAL EMOTIONAL SUPPORT 24 HOURS A DAY, 7 DAYS A WEEK, ACROSS THE UNITED STATES.

www.988lifeline.org 

BETTER HELP

BETTER HELP OFFERS WORLDWIDE ONLINE COUNSELING TO ADULTS, COUPLES AND TEENS. PROFESSIONAL THERAPISTS ARE AVAILABLE ANYTIME ANY WHERE FROM THE COMFORT OF YOUR HOME USING A COMPUTER, PHONE, OR TABLET.

BETTER HELP OFFERS WORLDWIDE ONLINE COUNSELING TO ADULTS, COUPLES AND TEENS. PROFESSIONAL THERAPISTS ARE AVAILABLE ANYTIME ANY WHERE FROM THE COMFORT OF YOUR HOME USING A COMPUTER, PHONE, OR TABLET.

www.betterhelp.com

CRISIS TEXT LINE

CRISIS TEXT LINE

TEXT HOME TO 741741 ANYWHERE IN THE UNITED STATES.


CRISIS TEXT LINE IS FREE, 24/7 SUPPORT FOR THOSE IN CRISIS. TEXT 741741 FROM ANYWHERE IN THE US TO TEXT WITH A TRAINED CRISIS COUNSELOR.

www.crisistextline.org

TEXT HOME TO 741741 ANYWHERE IN THE UNITED STATES.


CRISIS TEXT LINE IS FREE, 24/7 SUPPORT FOR THOSE IN CRISIS. TEXT 741741 FROM ANYWHERE IN THE US TO TEXT WITH A TRAINED CRISIS COUNSELOR.

www.crisistextline.org

STOPBULLYING.GOV

STOPBULLYING.GOV PROVIDES INFORMATION FROM VARIOUS GOVERNMENT AGENCIES ON WHAT BULLYING IS, WHAT CYBERBULLYING IS, WHO IS AT RISK, AND HOW YOU CAN PREVENT AND RESPOND TO BULLYING. 

 

STOPBULLYING.GOV PROVIDES INFORMATION FROM VARIOUS GOVERNMENT AGENCIES ON WHAT BULLYING IS, WHAT CYBERBULLYING IS, WHO IS AT RISK, AND HOW YOU CAN PREVENT AND RESPOND TO BULLYING. 

www.stopbullying.gov

THE TREVOR PROJECT LIFELINE

THE TREVOR PROJECT LIFELINE

CALL 1866-488-7386 OR TEXT 678678

THE TREVOR PROJECT IS THE LARGEST ORGANIZATION PROVIDING SUICIDE PREVENTION AND CRISIS INTERVENTION SERVICES FOR LGBTQ YOUTH.

 

www.thetrevorproject.org

Meet the Mind & Soul 🖤 behind YOU OWE URSELF®

Hi, I’m Roelsy — but most people know me as Elsiie. ☺️
I’m just a human with the biggest heart, leading with love, empathy, and purpose. Founder, CEO, and Creative Director of YOU OWE URSELF®.
This brand was born from one woman’s healing journey. I never imagined it would take shape through this craft — but designing became the way I connect with my emotions, release what I’m carrying, and come back to myself every time.
My sister says I finally found my voice and I couldn’t agree more.

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IN THIS BROKEN WORLD I CHOOSE KINDNESS®

Inspired by Drayke Hardman's story. A percentage of the proceeds from every Kindness Hoodie purchased goes directly to Drayke's Foundation — dedicated to bringing empathy, awareness, and understanding to Mental Health, and committed to supporting schools in creating safe spaces for all children. The Hardman family generously provided #doitfordrayke wristbands to go with each Kindness Hoodie purchased.

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